بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Alhamdulillah, its been a week away from the starting of 2021 and we have made a great move and great start. So since last Saturday, we went to a thrift store and pecahkan 1 bale. the support is extremely overwhelming and we managed to pecahkan 3 bales within one a week! could you believe it? it was like out of the blue, an idea sparked me and An, and then we was like okayyy we should start this bundle thing all over again and maybe this is one way that Allah wants to kabulkan our doa and our resolutions.

So alhamdulillah, we managed to raised RM722 within 1 week. okay i was super blessed by those supportive friends and customers. but apart from that, we need to try and adjust our self to adapt the new  routine. which is going to the laundry everyday to clean all the bundle clothing. apart from my 8-5 work. then we need to measure and sort, all the hassle, tepikan those koyak and unwearable clothes. it was a tiring process but still we are happy in what we do.

and also, i hope we could make more $$$ this week to make extra bonuses to cover our 3 bundle modal which we fork out around RM680. 

so you guys, if you are searching for RM1-RM10 clothes, pants, shirts, long sleeves, branded and unbranded ones, you may join our preloved telegram and see the available clothes there!

if you wanna see everyday aesthetic-like preloved IG with everyday motivational quotes you can follow my IG @ohdearayden.

till then, we hope we can be successful in what we do and excel and give the best to our customers!

and yeah, forgot to update! the very first giveaway went well, yes! and our winner also received RM20 cash + 1 knitwear. its great feeling when you get  to give back. 

Till Next time

x

Amrhabdlh

 

 

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Its the 2.2.2021 and the second day of January 2021. Alhamdulillah we didnt went out to celebrate yesterday, hahaha just hanging around at Alor Gajah with the kids to Mr DIY, then to Tekun Mart to grab some ice cream then go spend the evening at a nearby park. Thanks to Allah I still have my kids and my husband by my side and welcoming the new year with a great spirit. In sha Allah me and husband have had a few targets that we wanna achieve and we hope we can get them by the end of 2021, in sha Allah.

So as stated in my last post, I have 4 main targets that I wanna achieve.

The first one is to aim for RM10K income per month for Aydn Naufi Enterprise. Well in 2020 we just managed to get 3-4K per month. Alhamdulillah for that amount but I want to triple it more. sebab? An wants to get another car using SSM and we need to make roughly around 10K per month. So kalau you bahagikan 10K divided by 4, you need to make approximately 2.5K per week. So I need to brainstorm my head and need to figure out the business that can generate those numbers. Tu yang tengah memikir ape yang nak dibuat dekat Melaka. Masuk 2021 dah 6 years I menetap dekat Melaka but I still cant crack the code, how to earn lotsa $$$ here. Maybe I need more ways and strategies. Kena belajar lagi ni. So doa2kan ye I could be successful and achieve my target! *Nanti kalau ada progress Ill update here soon okayyy*

Apart from the money making, I also nak make effort post content everyday dekat my personal IG and also my preloved ones. Yelah, I nak belajar and I nak tengok whether by posting everyday does it effect my interactions or just one of those IG algorithms yang dorg gembar gemburkan. Kita nak compare by month to month and see the progress. Semoga istiqomah ye Mira. hahaha, banyak noh plannye. semoga semua menjadi insha Allah untuk tahun 2021 ni.

So every Friday i nak post my blog. okay semalam tertinggal 1 day sebab internet buat hal and I langsung tak boleh nak log in. Kalau pakai phone pulak rase cam tak syok kalau kau tak type the alphabets one by one using keyboard. The satisfied feeling yang you nak tau dengar you hit the board and bunyi ketak ketak ketak. hahaha if you know what I mean

Then on Saturday I can post video content untuk OhdearAyden. Any videos yang related to thrifting, savings or anything yang beneficial. 

Then every monday pulak nak buat video recipe untuk my personal IG. hahah simple video desserts je yang tu mmg my forte so in sha Allah wont be a big hassle kan. So by 1/1/21 I dah take note the 

numbers of followers which is Amirahabdlh : 1106, reached 365 and interactions 86 and OhdearAyden : 166, reached 301 and interactions 112. 

Kita tgk the number and interactions by February macamane pulak eh. 

Pagi-pagi lagi dah dengar keluhan me and my plans. In sha Allah semuanya menjadi. doakan yang baik-baik tau! so till then, Ill see you on next Friday in sha Allah.

Till Next time

x

Amrhabdlh

 

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Hey guys, happy Tuesday Morning. Alhamdulillah, 2 days left till we reach the end of 2020. How was your new year resolution so far? Did you carry it forward hence the Covid-19 situation now or you just make a new one? For me, I need to move on. Okay for my 2020 resolutions, I have achieved 5 out of 11 dreams, hehe. its okay kan. better than nothing right? And Alhamdulillah praised to Allah, I conceived my third baby and will due on the 7th July 2021. I don't know, all these are gifts from Allah and I terima with an open heart. Actually having a new baby haven't crossed my mind and it was like the last thing that i have ever imagined. But nevertheless, if it was meant to be, it was meant to be. I have achieved quite a lot in 2020.

1. becoming frontliner and was very proud of it

2. i brought my kids staycation at Estadia Hotel

3. Managed to settle my debts 

4. becoming close to my family, ayah and ibu and my in laws.

that's all I ever dreamed of and Alhamdulillah my doa dah termakbul Allah.

By 2021, I want to achieve

1. RM10,000 monthly income for Aydn Naufi Enterprise.

2. I wanna get a new car.

3. Holiday to Langkawi/ Penang/ Cameron Highlands/ Genting Highlands

4. A stable preloved business (Ohdearayden)

okay, only 4 targets but a big step and I hope that I can make a change to my small family. and I could welcome the new baby with happiness and joy in this world. 

Doakan I tau, and in sha Allah I will try my best to serve family, friends and those surrounding me, Amin.

Till Next time,

x

AmrhAbdlh

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Finally discovering myself again after almost 1 and half year missing. OMG how I miss writing and let it all out without being judges. I was in a path where I need to choose which is the best for me without me tiring myself. I felt what I planned those past years semuanya masih relevant to me and that what I want to be. But Im not consistent enough to make it thru. Cuba kau bayangkan if those past 2 years aku buat je apa aku plan nak buat, tak ke sekarang aku dalam keadaan yang stabil and establish? tapi takpelah, Allah has planned better plans and future for me and my family, so Insha Allah I trust with the process. Husnudzon and may Allah ease very step of the way.

2020 was a roller coaster ride for all of us. We went thru lotsa scary moments and the whole world was scared and frightened by this pandemic Covid-19. Just when early 2020 I realised that my big boy, Naufal, eventually went to kindagarten, he only spend 3 months schooling and the rest just staying at home. This Covid-19 makes the world pause for a moment, and let us realizing what mistakes we have made and kept us grounded and be close to the Almighty. Covid teaches us to be close to our family hence the lockdown we are going thru. Then by March 2020 I and the other colleagues need to work at a Quarantine center till raya. OMG the feeling was devastating, nervous but blessed at the same time. It was like once in a lifetime feeling that we go thru. working our ass of starting at 5am and go back at 8pm everyday without fail. But thru the busyness and chaos, we managed to keep our ukhwah strong among us to keep striving and going thru the process of a new norma.

In October 2020 too, I managed to conceive and having a baby. At first I was shooooocked and cant decide what to feel. Super confused and my morning sickness were damn crazy. Crazy enough that I really cant handle everything and felt it was a mistake getting pregnant with the 3rd child. Oh my, the Covid-19 baby, the quarantine baby. even after all the hectic we are going thru this year, I managed to make 1 baby, hahahaha. 

Okay enough rambling, will continue again in the next post! Nak share about my 2021 plans and targets and what have I achieved in 2020 so far.

Till next time,
x

AmrhAbdlh

Coming Back by April

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Coming back again setelah 2 bulan meninggalkan dunia blogging. I dont know. I have been not in the mood this past couple of months. Padahal I have made a resolution to keep writing every week. Lots of things happened in only 2 months back, but I'll prefer to keep it to myself. I have not been updating the IG's regularly as planned. My carousell got banned and I don''t know where to start. To start back at your feet, to learn to walk again is kindda the critical part for me. I dont know how to run again, to maintain my business, to earn extra money. To maintain how it was supposed to be. 

Sometimes I kept asking myself where does the enthusiastic me go? Why do I keep disappearing despite all things happened around me. Why i cant be consistent and just go with what i planned? This April i planned to juggle lots of things. i planned to hidup balik my bakery life, i nak juggle my preloved business and help an. and also nak update my kids ig. and be diligent with my work. making sure i meet all deadlines. but 1 thing i failed to do, is to pray. rasa dah lama sangat aku tak pegang sejadah dan memakai telekung. aku lost my inner sense. aku lost the connection that i need with the Almighty. aku dapat rasakan dia menyeru aku. tapi aku sombong angkuh and i felt like i dont have enough time to conquer all. to buat semua. kekadang aku rasa malu dengan anak-anak, bila dorg azan, mengaji dan cuba untuk membaca alfatihah dan solat. like what the hell man? where were you? where is your roll in becoming a mom? kenapa aku rasa tekejar sgt dengan duniawi. kenapa aku rasa like so uptight with money and income and numbers? kenapa semua ditarik sikit and kenapa aku kena mula from the start? kenapa aku rasa marah dengan diri aku? sebab i failed and cant accomplished. kadang i felt like there is a burden and rasa berat sangat kepala ni. sampai aku tak tahu where to start and tak tahu di mana hendak mengadu. kadang aku rasa overwhelmed and i need to cry. but then i think again what is the purpose aku nak menangis and meratap? bukan boleh membantu pun. that's why i guess i keep writing back here. so that i can open up and luahkan apa yang terbuku di hati. biarlah broken english ke singlish ke, who cares. nobody read it. just me for my own journal. 

okayyy enough of rambling. lets inhale and exhale. so here's what i need to do. delegate work so that i will not be overwhelmed. come back to Allah. ask for His guidance. In sha Allah everything will be fine, Thank you Allah for giving me a chance to breathe again today, for giving me time to think and do the right thing. In sha Allah ada petunjuknya.

Till next time,
x

AmrhAbdlh

CNY Holidays, where you up to?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 
In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Alhamdulillah, cuti sekolah for CNY dimanfaatkan sepenuhnya. spending time with my family and in laws really made my day well spent :) So i went back on the Saturday morning whilst the long school holiday and jam packed highway to JB. Upon reaching JB in the evening, i pay a visit at my mom's place and went back to my in laws.  

Sunday ; afternoon I and le husband brought my MIL to the dialysis center and while waiting, we head on to Galleria @ Kotaraya for lunch. Talk a walk around the mall and there was the Chinese ritual which i called 'dungdungcheng!' Haha. it was fun and enthusiastic! my boys got their ang paos even tho their not chinese but their face resemblance as one. hahaha.  then we went to spend at Mr DIY and buy 2 pairs of pyjamas for both kids. 

Monday ; we went to Capital 21 to spend the day. quite a big mall and its new btw. situated beside Kilang Bateri, its a show stopper and its located at the roundabout to Damansara Aliff. I have never been there and we explored the place. The kids went to play at the MCM Cartoon Planet and it was hell of fun! The admission is free but there's additional charge  when you want to play the games inside the planet. Around RM5-20 per games depending what games you're playing. Overall the kids had an amazing time :) At night, i visited my parents place again, have some Asam Pedas home made by my mom and hubby played futsal with his friends. It was CNY night and my parents place had a blast! fireworks everywhere and it was total mayhem. 

Tuesday ; we spent our time at Country Garden Danga Bay. Having the time of our lives swimming being like a kid again. Sob since im having the 'time' of the month i can only watch the kids play and swim. the ambiance is nice and cooling! with the windy sea breeze and the view is magnificent. we had nasi lemak for breakfast and swam from 11am till 4pm! the kids were super exhausted and sun burnt. thank you cik Adi for the upmost hospitality that you provide for us. i brought my nephews and niece from an's side and my brothers. they bonded well alhamdulillah :) and nyayi had some chit chat time with her brother.

Wednesday ; Its time to go back to Melaka, sob :( but before that we head over to Cik Ajo's place for lunch. We had Asam Pedas ikan duri and sagu cocktail. yum! i really adore Cik Ajo. i mean she's a housewife, husband earns around RM15k per month but nevertheless still yearning to own her own pocket money from selling Tupperware! Had 6 kids but still can juggle life between personal, family and business. So we hit the highway around 5pm and it was jam everywhere. my body was aching, eyes were soaring but still fight our way till Ayer Keroh and reached home around 11pm. its tiring but overall a very satisfied holiday spending with the loved ones.

Ayat Alquran surat Ali Imron Ayat 103

واَعْتصِمُواْ بِحَبْلِ الله جَمِيْعًا وَلاَ تَفَـرَّقوُا وَاذْ كـُرُو نِعْمَتَ الله عَلَيْكُمْ إٍذْكُنْتُمْ أَعْـدَاءً  فَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلـُوبِكُمْ  فَأَصْبَحْتُمْ بِنِعْمَتِهِ إِخْوَاناً وَكُنْتُمْ عَلىَ شَفاَ خُـفْرَةٍ  مِنَ النَّاِر فَأَنْقـَدَكُمْ مِنْهَا كَذَالِكَ يُبَبِّنُ اللهُ لَكُمْ اَيَاتِهِ لَعَلـَّكُمْ تَهْـتَدُون - ال عـمران 
Artinya : “Dan berpegang teguhlah kamu sekalian dengan tali Allah dan janganlah kamu sekalian berpecah belah, dan ingatlah nikmat Allah atas kamu semua ketika kamu bermusuh-musuhan maka Dia (Allah) menjinakkan antara hati-hati kamu maka kamu menjadi bersaudara sedangkan kamu diatas tepi jurang api neraka, maka Allah mendamaikan antara hati kamu. Demikianlah Allah menjelaskan ayat ayatnya agar kamu mendapat petunjuk” (Q.S. Ali Imron ayat 103)

just sharing sepotong ayat from the Quran menekankan bahawa the importance of ukhwah among us.

i do hope in sha Allah will experience the same thing again in the future.

till next time,

x

AmrhAbdlh 

The survival week, mode on!

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 
In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Last week was nothing more than what I could say is, survival mode! We struggled a bit, praying for Allah’s miracle to give us customers and pay on time in order to survive. We literally have nothing left. Our savings are all used up, and we save up as much as we can. 

My cooking gas has finished thus the only solution is cooking in the rice pot. My god, it was such a learning experience for me but i cooked quite a lot of menu using just 1 pot! But it take patience I must say. So i cooked macaroni soup which the kids love, mac n cheese (my fav!) stir fried veggies, egg soup with carrots and potatoes, sambal sardin and also sambal fishcake. Not bad kan? We planned to go to Mcd on the weekends but it was not going as per planned since we had only a few Ringgits in our hands. But i brought the kids to RM2 shop where they buy toys and sweets. Later in the evening, we played badminton till 2 hours plus. And the saddest thing is I bruised my eye. Oh my, wrong timinglah. Next week I need to go to my brother’s wedding and on next Monday is our Final SA League. Quite packed tho thats why we are saving as much as we can so we have some money for next week’s agenda. 

Then on Sunday it was malas day. Very very very lazy day. I woke up at 6, performing my Subuh prayers then doing the house chores. Then I slept in the afternoon and we didnt exercise that day. My body felt so lemah that I baring je the whole day. And I slept early too around 9pm. I ate a lot and I baked pineapple upside down cake. The kids love it soooo much. Sunday was not productive for me. And I also didnt perform my other 4 prayers as well. 

Sob, so pls pls pls, I pray to Allah and I do hope I’ll be istiqomah for the coming days, and that Allah grant me rezeki banyak sikit for this week as Ill be going to Perak this Friday. Doa yang baik-baik aja, thanks!

1 thing that I learned for the past week is, 

1) to always berdoa dan bertawakal kepada Allah. I mean Allah tu taklah sekejam mana where He will not answer your prayers. Dia tau you are in a financial problem and He granted you customers and from them you get to earn some money to survive.

2) Allah Maha Pengasih and Maha Penyayang. truly dengan kasih sayang Allah and His compassionate yang makes you go strong to deal with your daily lives even though that week was a hassle for you.

3) lastly is bersangka baik kepada Allah. Allah gave us trial everything for a reason. He knows we can deal with it sebab tu dia bagi. saja nak uji kami hambanya sebab Dia sayang kami.

Till next time,

x

AmrhAbdlh